Why do we focus on the one negative feedback comment and miss the 20 great things!

Why do we focus on the one negative feedback comment and miss the 20 great things!

Does this sound familiar? You’ve just had your end of year review. You spent the last hour with your manager reviewing your progress. You were really pleased with your performance over the last year and have made some great headway in your work. You were expecting this to be a session full of praise, but no she told you, you need to work on your relationships with a particular client who is notorious for being difficult. You’re fuming.

Your house is on the market and you happened to be in when some potential buyers came to view your property, they were gushing over the décor and you felt a real sense of pride. That was until you overheard them talking about the bathroom. Apparently the bright pink you have on the wall looks like a colour you would find in a brothel. How dare they!

Why is it that we focus on the one negative comment amongst the plethora of positive ones?

How will I know this is the right move?

How will I know this is the right move?

Sometimes we just have to take that big leap. We can do all our homework, our research our deep soul searching, talk to friends, family the Butcher, the Baker the Candlestick maker but in the end we have to take that leap of faith or be prepared to stay in our status quo in that safe, but boring, unchallenging situation, that job that we hate.

Trying to get certainty in an uncertain world can be a huge issue for those of us who don’t like to take risks or don’t like change or being exposed and showing our vulnerability. Before making that leap we want to know that we are making the right decision and taking the best route on our journey. However, let’s get realistic; we aren’t going to know for certain.

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